Thursday, December 30, 2010
Oveson Christmas Party
Nutcracker and School Christmas Sing
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Good News!
Thank you... Thank you... Thank you.... for all the prayers. We received a call from the doctor today and he THINKS that it appears it's not in his lymph nodes. He told us CT's aren't 100% but doesn't see anything around the area that would suggest that.
He is leaning toward it being a cyst which like I had mentioned, has to be removed due to the placement. 80% of the time these are removed they are benign so we have GREAT percentages! He said we could get a biopsy but if it were him he wouldn't put a little guy through that. He said that it was going to be removed regardless so we could find out at that time if it were malignant or benign.
I feel so much better about it today. After going through all the emotions and worst case scenario thoughts and crying the majority of the day I was in bed and Eric said to me, "Jess... you've already decided it's cancer... and if it is, which I have a good feeling about, do you not have Faith in your Father in Heaven?"
So then we started talking and I put all the bad thoughts out of my head (a little) and it was better. I'm not going to lie and say I slept well or much but at least I wasn't crying! When the phone call came in and I spoke with the doc I felt so much better. So even if we aren't totally out of the woods... I know that all the prayers and kind words have totally given me a little bit of peace.
Another positive note is that the facial nerve runs through the prada gland. They were thinking that the placement of the cyst was in the gland but it looks like it may be more on top so he said that he would first try a small incision and see if it can be removed the more common way which means no big cut down the face! GOOD POSITIVE STUFF!!! He wasn't sure it would work but said he would definitely try that first! So today I feel like doing little cheers!
I don't have much time but definitely knew there were concerns and appreciate all of you amazing people and your prayers!

Tuesday, December 14, 2010
Murphy Update
So first of all... Thank you all so much for all your texts, calls, messages... I honestly started out the morning in tears due to the fact that I had so many texts from friends wishing me good luck and letting me know that their thoughts were with us. Overwhelming how I have surrounded myself with such awesome, compassionate friends.
So to start things out... Murphy had a rough cough last week so I scheduled him a doc appt. While we were there I had questioned Dr. Pete about a bump that we had noticed a couple months ago in the front of his ear. So I have taken a couple of my kids before with bumps behind their ears or down their chin line and they are always pockets of infection that go away with time. After this wasn't going away we thought we should ask about it.
The doctor referred me to an ENT which we saw today. There were a few different scenarios and the doctor is not sure what it is and cannot be sure until he runs a few tests. He was leaning toward a lump in his lymph-node. He followed that statement with, "this is most commonly a from of lymphomo." He also stated that over 70% of the time these are benign.
Our options were to get a CT scan to see if there were more lymph-node (which would be a bigger sign of lymphomo). The good news is that he couldn't actually feel anything so he said that was a good sign. Our other option would be to biopsy it which would mean put a needle into the side of his head and pull out stuff from the "bump." The doctor said he would hate that.
Regardless of whatever it is or whether it is cancerous it HAS to be removed. It is in his salivatory gland which affects a few things that shouldn't be affected. So normally it's an easy procedure that they cut a little hole and remove it. Unfortunately it is right on the "face nerve" which controls the function of the left side of his face. So they will have to cut from the top of his ear down to under his chin bone. They then peel back his skin and remove it carefully without bumping or heaven forbid, cutting, the nerve. The doctor assured me he has done several of these surgeries and only had a few paralyzed faces!!
HaHa... totally just kidding! Never paralyzed anyone before. So.. due to the fact that it will be removed regardless of what it is the surgery has been scheduled for December 30th.
I asked the doc what he would do if it were his child. He told me to do the CT scan so we could have a better idea of what he was dealing with. When we called the hospital they weren't able to schedule him until Thur morning. The doc called the CT people in his building and tried talking them into doing the CT immediately. They told us that they never do CT scans on 2 year olds without sedation and they were concerned because if there were any movement at all the CT wouldn't work. Our doc told the CT tech that he wasn't a normal 2 year old and he thought he would do it.
He is so mellow and good that Eric and I were also confident that it would work. Besides that, we couldn't wait another 2 days to know anything. So... they go to do his IV and he totally freaks out and pulls it out. I was ready to throw in the towel and didn't want to see him go through that again. He was frantic and scared and mad and bawling uncontrollably. Eric suggested we try the other arm. We both knew how tired he was and knew if we could get the IV in he would hopefully fall asleep which would make the actually scan simple! So after both of us and 2 nurses holding him down we did get the IV into the other arm.
He was so not happy with us. I held on to him and snuggled him to sleep after he tried catching his breath for 5 minutes from crying so hard. He would almost get asleep and say, "I want to get out of here mom." We told him they had a Buzz Lightyear ride that we had to go on first and then we could "get out of here." He wasn't convinced. After 30 minutes he fell asleep and I laid him down on the CT bed. He woke a bit but went back to sleep shortly after. She started doing the CT and his eyes popped open. I was dying. I thought for sure we had just wasted the last hour... knowing if he moved it would have been for nothing. When he opened his eyes he saw the lights flashing and said, "mom... is this the Buzz ride." I assured him it was and told him to tell me what color the lights where. They then shot the dye, or liquid, into his IV which isn't comfortable and gives you a bad taste in your mouth. He didn't like that much and started to move a bit... He said, "Mom... I'm melting (its warm liquid)... mom I'm melting... my blood is melting". It made me smile and he was not liking it until he saw my sexy x-ray jacket. He said, "Mom, you have a buzz lightyear shield on." After that he laid perfectly still for the next 5 minutes and had a perfect CT.
So now we wait... They said we should hear from the Dr. first thing in the morning with the results of the CT. It took all I had not to break down in the office but I did it. For the next couple hours I couldn't think about it without breaking down. So I'm a big, fat, cry-baby and can't talk about it. I apologize for not calling everyone concerned and it was definitely too long to text. Everything will be okay. Regardless of anything... it will be ok (Eric has assured me this all afternoon). I'm sorry I'm such a wuss but if I start talking I cry and then I feel like a big dork because it could possibly be nothing!
But until I know... I will just be a baby! I love you all and appreciate your kind words and prayers. I will update as soon as I hear anything!

Saturday, November 13, 2010
Happy 4th Birthday Mayser
1. His gorgeous blonde curls! He wore a hat most of the summer and Eric wouldn't let me cut his hair. It was cute when he had his ballcap on and it curled up around the brim!
Fall 2010 Recap
This particular tournament was pretty awesome. Both Mick and Maddux won the championship on this day. We thought that was pretty awesome. I'm sure there won't be many days like this but it was pretty stinkin fun!
This is Maddogs' good friend Ryder - who plays on the Marshalls. I had to take a closeup of the 2 of them and I wish I would have had them both smile or not because they seriously look like twins. It's a little freakish. There's not one person on the team, or parents of the boys that haven't mistaken one for another. One night Grandpa Pete came to watch Maddux and when Ryder was walking by Grandpa, Grandpa kept yelling, "Maddux," "Maddux." He told Eric he was surprised that Maddux ignored him. Eric was just worried that Ryder thought Grandpa was crazy!!!
And here's Maddugs cute team. Sorry - Blackberry quality photo!
Murphy had his first dentist appointment about a month ago. I was so worried about him but the kid was a stud!!! He did so great and let the dentist brush, clean, x-ray... everything.
Where did my baby go?
And here's Murphy with Geoffrey the Giraffe (Toys R Us). We were walking around The District shopping one night and Geoffrey came out and gave Murph hugs!







